There are so many problems that causes divorce in marriages but here I’m going to show some vital once you should avoid in order to live happily with your spouse. Sometimes, divorce is mostly cause by some common behavioral problems that could be controlled.
There are some common problems that causes divorce which most couples are not aware of today and some of them occurs as natural problem that couldn’t be solved while others are mainly caused by our behaviors which we can work on if only we can tell ourselves the truth and that’s the reason any marriage counselor will always advise you to go for marriage compatibility test before getting married.
Having seen the rate at which newly married couples divorce, I decided to write on the problems that causes divorce so that you can learn from it and also apply it in your marriage.
5 Major Problems That Causes Divorce In Any Marriage
1. Infidelity: This is a major problem that causes divorce in marriages. The problem of infidelity is usually unbearable by the family members of either the man or woman because no child has been produced by the couples. Infidelity could be a problem from either the man or woman, so it all depends on how they can understand themselves so as to save their marriage.
2. Unrealistic expectation: This usually occur when promises are broken, expectation fails and things are not going the way it was expected to be. This issue can be solved during the time of dating. It’s always advise to date your spouse before getting married and by so doing, you can find out his/her love towards material things.
3. Marrying too early: Early marriage is never a good thing to practice because it’s all about immaturity and lack of experience. Many marriage fails today because of lack of experience and it’s always a good idea to date before getting married. While dating, you could identify the difference between you and your partner and if the both of you are not compatible, it’s better to breakup the relationship instead of having a broken marriage.
4. Adultery or Cheating: I still don’t know the reason why most married couples cheat on each others after getting married. Even the bible is seriously against this. What could be the cause of adultery after getting married? Could it be the pleasure gotten from sex that you don’t get from your marriage? Well, I think this is caused by immaturity or maybe the other partner who is involved in adultery is not always sexually satisfied.
5, Misunderstanding: Misunderstanding, argument and other related problems causes divorce easily. Living happily and sharing ideas with each is a great way to avoid any misunderstanding that could lead to divorce.
Now it’s over to you, so what other problems do you think could cause divorce and what do you suggest to put an end to it?